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female
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16-17,
anonymous
writes:I'm 15, my ex boyfriend is 16. We started dating November 16/08.I was at a weak state of mind, and I fell in love with our dysfunctional relationship. He has no future, he lives in a dysfunctional home with an alcoholic backround.Ever since I started dating him, my life fell apart. He was controlling over me, he disrespected me. But I fell in love with every sweet moment. Love has blinded me. He cheated on me, got me pregnant, and left me. But I run back to him as if I cannot see all the bad things he's ever done to me.He moved away for a good two months after all of that and I felt like I had my own air to breathe. I dealt with my pain in my own way - alcohol and promiscious behavior. I can't do it on my own, alcohol is my escape and I try hard for it not to become a problem but I cringe at the thought of me in a sober mind come Friday.So what do I do? I am so in love and my Mom says I'm not allowed to see him anymore. She forbids me too and I'm scared to not love him anymore. I'm scared not to be with him anymore. He is comfortable. I know what to expect. I know what I have to give and what I can take.I'm scared to face the world all on my own. My life has fallen apart at fifteen. I'm repeating my freshman year and I'm about to fail it all over again.
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reader, Ask oldersister  + ♥, writes (2 November 2009):
 Your mom is right and she should throw away all the alcohol in the house along with getting you therapy because you are clearly not in a healthy place. Please talk with her, she cares enough to forbid you from seeing him, so she should care about your mental state enough to get you help. School counselor is the other option. This is serious and I don't think you can handle this alone. Talk to someone tomorrow (not the boyfriend) and please update. Ideally, your mom needs to get you a physical, blood work, and hormone levels checked and make sure there isn't a physical or chemical deal going on here and then get you to a therapist. You have to talk to her, okay?
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