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How do I get this guy off?

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Question - (9 October 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi.

I want to know how to get a guy off. I like to go out dancing and the like and i have met some guys i really like and i want to know how by dancing can i get the guy to have a hard on. My friends say it's easier you just need to rub up against them.

i do this, i'm quiet attractive and am often told i'm hot so it can't be that i'm not attractive enough. I usually hears studded belts (thsat's gotta cause some effect right?).

My friends tell me that i'm dancing right and they can't believe that i don't notice anything. I don't want to ask the guy if i'm getting him off or what does he want me to do -- i want to surprise him.

What aren't i doing right. why can i do?

maybe he's getting off and i'm just not "feeling" it....

Thanks in advance cupids.

Josie

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007):

First off I just want to say that a guy may get up or hard well rubbing against him but for him to actually get off as in to come well you have to do some serious grinding. Jeans/pants are not the thinest material so it can hide a growth well. Another thing the guy may just not get/be big enough for you to tell a 'huge' difference.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006):

Actually, you might want to try IceRed.com - go into the Night Life section to ask the question.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006):

other than the fact that ur acting like a tease and he may hate u for it, a lot of guys fight hard to control not getting an erection in public. and besides do whant these guys to like u or do want them to think of u as a peice of meat where they use u and leave u. what type of rep do u want? if u really want to know if hes into, just ask and dont waste time

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A female reader, uonlyliveonce United Kingdom +, writes (9 October 2006):

uonlyliveonce agony auntwhy do you want to do that anyway? unless its your boyfriend its pretty trashy n you'll get a reputation as a prick tease or a slut

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006):

Strange question. Why do you want to do this? Why is it so important. Anyway...well just watch more music videos and take notes. lol. bend over with him behind you touch your toes, shake it, grind on him really hard, rub and jirate, turn around and face him move your hips in a sexy circular motion...lol. use your imagination. It's not that difficult. Practice in the mirror at home or something. If you do it right you should be able to feel it. ok? I hope I have helped you.

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