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*onfused22
writes:I am having serious problems getting over someone. I feel like I am obsessed with the other person. We dated for 4 months and broke up 6 months ago. We were very intimate and I have never felt a connection to someone like that since my 1st which was 10 years ago. She made me feel so special and I thought she was the most beautiful girl I have ever been with. So it's been over and I just want to stop thinking about her day and night. I've even dated other girls and have been intimate with them but i just dont feel the same connection and it's killing me inside!
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (8 August 2007):
 Theres a saying here in the Uk, If something seems too good to be true, thats usually because it is!
Be safe xxxxxxxxx
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reader, Confused22 +, writes (8 August 2007):
Confused22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm palestinian(middle-eastern)/american. My religion is muslim. Our religion doesn't allow dating. Fornication is an absolute grave sin :)
Also as you can see I'm quite americanized this was something that just seemed to be good to be true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): Whats your race and religion, if you dont mind me asking?
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (7 August 2007):
Well some things just aren't meant to be sweetheart and this seems to be one of them. If you split a while ago & shes not shown any signs of wanting to get back together, you really do need to move on.
We cant make people love us. If we could i would choose Brad pitt! Its just not going to happen.
You will meet someone you like just as much when you least expect it, you will see.
C xxxxx
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reader, Confused22 +, writes (7 August 2007):
Confused22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe reason we split was she said that we're too different and that I am too involved with family activities. We are the same, race, religion, speak same language. I think she wanted more from me. I was 26 she was 25 divorced with a 5 year old child living at home. I think I kind of viewed her more of my wife than a GF but she didn't think that.We got snowed in on valentines. Plans got all screwed up and I did get her a piece of jewelry and chocolates, etc.When i met her she wasn't working. I helped find her a job. She then got into a car accident. I helped purchase a car for her. I drove her back forth from work for 2 weeks. This was only after 2 months of knowing her.There is so much more to this but I can't seem to let her go from my mind. Thats true nothing better has come along.Also just to add. I have never dated someone of the same, race, religion before and i think that is contributing to the issue. Since my parents and family and myself really wouldn't want to marry anything but that.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (7 August 2007):
Hi
It sounds like you are building this woman up to be something shes not & its clouding you. If you were only together 4 months i wouldnt of thought it could be anything more than an obsession after having split 6 months ago.
You didnt say the reason you split?
Im sure time will change things. You probably just havent met someone suitable yet.
Good luck
C xxxxx
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