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writes: I've been question my sexuality for about 7/8 years now - since I was around 9 years old. I gradually came to accept that whatever happens will happen, and I'll fall for who I fall for. I've never had physical attraction to guys, yet I have women however I've been talking to a guy for a few months now and I can say I do really like him. I've just got back off of a family holiday and whilst I was there there was a female worker who I bonded with, we got on well and she took me and my friend out one night to some bars. I developed a bit of a crush on her, now I'm back off of holiday I keep thinking about her and its getting me down because we didn't get to say bye properly or have a photo etc. It sounds stupid, but its happened before with female teachers where I get this kind of awe for them and cannot stop thinking about them. Then, there's the guy. I do like him however im not ready to see him as I'm still getting over the post-holiday Blues and I feel like I'm distancing myself. I just don't know what to do, how do I get over a women 10 years older than me that I barely know?? And how do stop distancing myself from him??
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reader, dayvide  +, writes (20 February 2015):
 Holiday crushes will surely fade away with time..I'll advise you give this guy more attention and let him into your life.. Once he's completely in your life I believe all the memory of the other lady will fade away
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reader, Midnight Shadow  +, writes (20 February 2015):
 Holiday crushes are very normal - they'll fade with time :)
How much older is this boy? If he's more than two years older, I think you should pass on him too. If he's within two years of you, just allow yourself a few months or so to get over her (don't try searching for her online or anything) and then just talk to the guy and see what happens :) It's all about taking it slowly - so: time and patience!
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