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writes:hi guys! To all those who have an extended family... My husband n I don't really have an issues between us except for his ex!The situation is this; my husband has a child with another woman with whom he hasn't have much of a relationship much to his hearts discontent! The ex is a manipulative thing who until three yrs ago has had my husband wrapped around her little finger doing wateva she says! when i came onto the scene i have asked him to stand up to her n put in some scheduals n regulation for their sons sake as much as everyone elses! This he's tried to do but she's constantly got nastier, now turning on me saying that its my fault that my husband can't have a relationship with his son, despite i'm the one who's gone without to ensure we can send him presents n make phone calls n even buy an air ticket which he now refuses to use! The boy is ten yrs old n his mother treats him like a baby still! How do i get my husband to tell his ex to show respect to me n himself? To say that the way she treats us is unexceptable? N stand up for his rights as a father?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 August 2010):
You can't. What can your husband do about this woman? He's already tried and she's just got worse.
What you might be able to do if you play it right is make recordings of her being nasty, keep all letters and emails and make sure the courts then know that she's a bad mother. If she's stopping him seeing the child, then your husband needs to get a lawyer and kick some ass.
You can't change this woman yourselves. But perhaps a visit to court will change her mind.
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