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*arasu10
writes:i am 4 months pregnant and my babys daddy and i decided to take a break. not because of the baby, but because of the last 4 months we were together.5 months ago i had family problems and all those bottled up emotions i took out on him. after i moved in with him a month later, i treated him like crap, i talked to him however i wanted, i tried to control who he talked to and hung out with, i'd start fights everyday and i'd even hurt myself and have thoughts of suicide.i've come to terms with my family issues, moved back in with my mom and everything seems to be getting better now. now that he sees that im getting help, we really want to work it out, especially with a baby on the way. everything is going great! i mean when we do hang out it's perfect! we still say i love you, we still make love, we still talk like a couple, and we still show that affection.my problem is that now that everything is going great, i cant seem to let go of all the hurtful things i did to him. i remind myself of them everyday. how do i forgive myself and let go of the past?
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reader, bouncer  +, writes (29 August 2009):
Forgiving takes time darling but your well on the way.Try not going back and just look forward to the future. Best of luck with the baby
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reader, karasu10 +, writes (29 August 2009):
karasu10 is verified as being by the original poster of the question but what if he hasnt forgiven me yet and is in the process of forgiving me?
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reader, j_rods girl +, writes (29 August 2009):
You should let the past be the past. If everything is going good and if he has forgave you, let it go everything will be fine.
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