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writes: Do you ever feel sometimes even when life is going so good and you have great friends and family and your future is right in front of you. You can still feel lost and not know who you are? Because that's how I feel. I've never understood what people meant when they said they feel lost and aren't sure who they are, I thought it was stupid to say. But today I was thinking about things i've done recently, what person I am and do I want to be and how I've changed, I'm definitely a different person to the girl I was two months ago. I don't know whether that is because university has changed me, but thing is I can't tell if I like the change or not and do I want to be this girl, or someone else. I don't know if this makes sense, I'm just at that stage where I'm not sure who I am and I wondered how do I find this out? How do I figure out what person I want to be and everything else? If anyone understands what I am saying and can make sense, please advice would be appreciated!
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reader, Miss Karma Louise  +, writes (20 November 2011):
hello lovely. i think i understand what your trying to explain. i will try my best to help you. Britney Spears once wrote a song called 'not yet a girl', you should google that im sure youll find very comforting. she explains in the song about this very feeling, being unsure about stuff and being stuck in the middle, not sure what direction you want or need to follow. Every woman goes through this all IMPORTANT thing, its a realization of becoming a woman. Youll find your direction/path soon. but at the moment embrace this 'lost feeling'. Good luck,xx
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 November 2011):
 Everybody changes as they get older, it's just life. As we experience different things it makes us look at life differently and behave differently. I guess you just need to figure this one out for yourself about who you are and what you want to be, just remember there is no right or wrong answer to life, we learn all the time things about ourselves at all ages
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