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writes: HI,I finished with my girlfriend last Wednesday. I said to her that if she didn't respect me or feel any attraction for me then that was fine and that we shouldn't see each other again. I've picked up on lots of things that have brought me to this point I might add. Her response to that was 'well you're obviously not that bothered if you're willing to let it go that easily'. Thus avoiding the question. I said that I'd leave her to decide, but as I was leaving told her that it might be best if I didn't see her again. I couldn't handle the indecision and inner turmoil you see.First thing, she's no good at sharing her feelings and says very little or nothing, so I never know what she's thinking.Second thing is, she text me on Monday night saying 'hope you had an ok weekend. Just thought I'd send a txt, hope you don't mind'. Third thing, I met her brother Sunday night and he wasn't even aware we'd broke up even though he told me he had seen her!Not sure what to make of that, wonder if anyone could give me some advice.Oh yeah, I decided rather than wallow in self pity, I went on a date Monday night with a girl I got talking to on Saturday. In fact, I got the text whilst I was in the Cinema with her! I guess it must be true about women having a 6th sense!I still do have feelings for my ex though and don't know what to do for the best :( Any good advice would be much appreciated, thanks.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (9 May 2007):
 Time is your best friend in situations like this. Stay busy and get out and about with friends. I really think the break up was for the best. You'll be fine.
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reader, michael hughes  +, writes (8 May 2007):
many women dont show there feelins towards the partners or on the other hand she might not of had any feelins for you. if you are that curious about it ask her if she had feelins for you or if she trusts you.
she maybe textin you to either try and get back with you or even just be friends this coulde be the reason why she not told her family.
good for goin on a date dont just sit around doin nothing find someone else if this women is not right for you.
just remember you can always be friends with you ex girlfriend.
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