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How do I deal with an uncircumsized penis?

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Question - (10 April 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 April 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am dating an uncircumsized guy for the first time. I never thought I'd be afraid of a penis, but I have no clue what to do with it! I need to know how to give my guy great head. What do I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010):

The most important thing to remember is that the foreskin only pulls back so far so unlike a circumcised guy you have to be learn how far back it will go before he feels pain.

Also the head of an uncut penis is more sensitive so you have to treat it as such. Other than that it's pretty much the same thing. The same things apply.

Google 'frenulum' and learn what it is. You have one under your tongue it's the piece of skin that holds your tongue tothe bottom of your mouth, if you try to pull up your tongue too far it's a little painful, try it and you'll see what I mean. Well we have one of those on our penis holding our foreskin in place and if you pull it back too far we get a pain just like the one you just got under your tongue.

With this knowledge and some signals from him you should know his limits and what he likes.

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A male reader, happy140 United States +, writes (10 April 2010):

happy140 agony auntI amd uncircumsized (have a foreskin) and I like it pulled up and have the tongue inside and swirled around the head. I also like it nippled on litely with teeth, I like it sucked, not my cock but my foreskin. Most men enjoy watching a woman suck it. I like it pulled all the way down and back up over the cock head, this is an increadable feeling. Also stroking it, pullinf the foreskin down and then back over the head. The head is so sensative because it is smooth, not rough as a circumsized male is. It is also VERY sensative so after orgasm you need to be gentle. All me like their foreskins played with because it makes its own lube, just as the vagina does only to a lesser degree. My wife says she loves the taste. We also enjoy foreplay where you just slightly pull up and down on the foreskin, it get precum cum flowing fast. a foreskin should be fun. Have fun with it. Some men have issues that their foreskin won't retract all the way down-that's easy to see, you start sliding it down and it stops, thats where you stop and start the up stroke. I love my foreskin and you can have so much fun with it-trust me you will enjoy it-remember it is different than a circumsized male in that it is more sensative, thousand of nerve ending like your clit-he will let you know what he likes, just ask him if this feels good and tell hims it's your first and you like it and need a little guidenes

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A male reader, happy140 United States +, writes (10 April 2010):

happy140 agony auntI am an uncircumcized m an-I think the WORST advise you can get is from some of the woman out there-I have read so many answer to this question at other sites and most females sau "pull his foreskin back and treat it like a circumsized one"-That is WRONG- Most men HATE it when woman do that-It is part of our cock and we don't like it treated like its not there!! Its that simple ladies-its part of the cock and treat it so, not like it is a desiese.

First thing, if he is a young man he probably doesn't "get ready for oral sex" (I learn long ago to be ready). What you need to do if possible have a warm wash towel and use it on his cock and balss telling him you want to lick every inch and want to be sure he is clean under his foreskin-we take NO OFFENSE!!!!! I like my foreskin pulled up and sucked, I like the tongue to go between my foreskin and the head of my cock in circles, I also like lite nipples on it. There are so many nerve ending in a foreskin it drives a man wild when a woman loves it orally. I also like it pull down past the head and sucked "normally" and pulled back up, The feeling of my foreskin sliding over my head and then back down is increadable. I also like my foreskin pulled up past the head of my cock and sucking my cock with a wet mouth, not moving my foreskin, and then a harder suck causing my foreskin to retract downward as it go deeper into your mouth.The foreskin is almost as sensative as your clit, it has that many nerve endings. PS..woman also have a foreskin, it is the little hood that covers your clit protecting it from being rubbed in panties and other ways., well it does the same thine for his cock, his head is much mor sensative, exspeally after he cums. I say suck his foreskin and if he doesn't moan, then pull it down and continue-we also LOVE to hear you like our foreskin. We feel self concious about it anywhay because so woman say its "gross" we we worry you may be one. My wife has learned to love it because I am so much more sensative and she enjoys the moans she gets from me. Handjobs are much easier too, just pull the foreskin above the head of his cock and all the way back down. Foreskins are a wonderful thing, they make a tasty, lubricate (just like your vagina) that helps lubricate you and him during sex including oral sex. Please enjoy yourself and let him feel like you enjoy it also-play with it-you can carress an foreskined cock alday without lube but not a circumsized one as it becomes dry--My wife says she wouldn't know what to do with a cut man as she plays with mine all the time laying in bed (uses four fingers and pulls the foreskin up over the head and lets it slide back down-increadable feeling and I never need lube!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010):

ok. The way to do it is be gentle, dont go straight for their knob, play with their shaft. It will smell a bit more than a normal penis but its hard for them to clean underneath the foreskin without it being really sensitive. Just be very carefull. And watchout for your teeth

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