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writes:The guy i like at school is currently 'married' to one of my closest friends on facebook,I know hes interested in me vaguely, but im not sure how to act on it.At the moment my friend dosn't like him as more than a friend, but i am worried it will turn into more. I am not trying to be a jelous cow, but i dont want to end up jelous of one of my mates.Im not keen on telling either of them that i like him, because of other peoples opinions( shallow, i know) and i am also slightly afraid of rejection. but how should i cope with their friendly relationship without interfering too much?and yes, i will eventually tell him i like him, but not at the moment while he and my friend are 'involved'thanks, much love xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou both xxx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 You stay in contact with him and in time if he likes you, he would gravitate towards you.
If things are meant to happen between you two ,it will happen,no matter what.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 You should definitely tell your friend that you're crushing on him! If you feel like she really has purely platonic feelings for him, you should open up to your BFF and let her know how you're feeling. Maybe she can help you out, or find out if he feels the same way? If she's a real friend, she won't judge you or have a bad opinion of you!!
And, at least she can make you feel better about the whole "married" thing, and can reassure you that it's totally friendly and innocent.
Good luck, sweet! Talk to your friend about things!
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