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How do I convince a married woman to sleep with me?

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Question - (19 April 2009) 13 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

if a marreid woman likes a man and she gives him some sexual signs every now and then does,that mean that she has some sexual fantaseis about him? ,

and does he has a chance to get laid ??

and what is the way to seduce her ?? if i wanted to??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009):

Go for it!

You are right women are not all innocent and the chances are that you are following your instincts which are telling you that there is a sexual attraction between the 2 of you. Just be prepared to pay any conciquences that may or may not arise should anything happen between you.

Good Luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009):

so this married woman is giving you the green light for more than just flirting. lets be blatant about it - she want to shag you. you oblige, then what. she throws you away like used condoms after she is done with you.

can you live with this. knowing that she then would not want anything to do with you. your work life will be so uncomfortable.

i should warn you, (sorry this will sound rude). i don't think you will be able to satisfy this MW. she sounds like a tiger, and i believe you won't be able to tame her.

(have you thought of just telling her to STOP IT. Tell her that you don't appreciate her flitatious behaviour. Tell her to keep it for her long suffering hubby. Rude, but effective. You can then have the last laugh - you will be known as the only man who turned her down. You will then be the hot guy that sll the songle women want. You will be more popular, and hey, you can score big time after that)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009):

I am sorry.. i didn't realize you took my anwser as blame. I gave you my honest opinion. I still thin you shoudl resist... as i said before, this could ruin a lot of lives. She may be doing this now, but heavily regret it once she starts to see and feel the consequences.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i deeply understand blaimig for this marreid woman i mean i am blaiming my self for her atually ,

but she started flirting with me and i repeat in a diffirent way and for a very long time lets say about a year before getting any reaction from me, i am not an easy person as i have seen allot in my life,

but honestly i am lusting over her now !!

army medic you are a man and you know what i mean..

sorry for being low and all the stuff but trust me allot of honest men would fall under her magic spell

any ways it seems that i am not getting any answer just blaims afterall,

i wish if a mature lady who has lived such a situation

wiht a man would answer me and thanks for all the answers again :-)

please stop blaiming me,and try to pray for me instead

i didnt plan to be in this situation but i just found my self stuck in this desire wich i want to manage in a discreet and legal way

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009):

Army medic and i have basically spoken the same words, but here are some more:

Two wrongs do not make a right. It is wrong for her to seduce you in this way that makes you think you might have a chance, but the fact that she is doing this, does not mmake it ok for you to cave into her.

I'd say, go to a bar and look for another girl who just wants some sex. At SHE will most likely be single. Don't encourage this married woman to make a mistake that she may later end up regretting big time. It could seriously ruin a lot of lives.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntWell thanks for the high rating, but I'd rather you took our advise!

If you have so many women falling at your feet why pick the dishonest married one? Why not a honest single girl? I'm sorry you still sound like a desperate teenager who fancies his teacher to me.

I mean any "chance to get laid" and "I just want to have fun".... Are you serious? You are talking about playing with someone's marriage so YOU can have fun! You strike me as a selfish desperate low life!

She is married, therefore off limits no matter how flirty, you want to have fun, find a single girl, if for one reason only.... Her husband!

Now STOP thinking with your BALLS!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009):

You are free to do what you want as long as it's legal, safe and consensual, even if some people disagree with it.

Don't go there - it's not a situation ANY individual wants to be in, and any individual with self-respect wouldn't date a married person anyway.

Find a nice single girl, and if no-strings sex is what you want, take it from there...

Acting like this is pretty low, and there are single women out there, if you know where to look...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

well thanks for the answers....

infact i have highly rated all of the answers so far

but i want to tell you something oftenly flirting guides to other places (( not necassary all the time ))

and this womans flirting is very very different,

i am a good looking man and i face all sorts of flirting in daily baisis from different type of women but this one is very different ,

and infact i dont want to ruin her marriage,and i am not over reacting towards her seduction,

i dont want to ruin her marriage or to harm her feelings or be harsh with her as i dont want to lose her..

i just want to have fun and as you know NOT ALL WOMAN ARE HONEST,

so finally do you think i have a chance??

please dont blame me i know i am not the right side

but again not all woman are honest !!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009):

Just because she is flirting with you doesn't mean that she wants you. Sometimes a person can be fickle. If you keep up at the pace that you seem to be going, you are probably going to scare her off into the arms of her husband who will not be happy.

Why is it so important to get "laid"?

You seem to have a negative view of women.

You need to learn to love yourself so that you can love others.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2009):

I am a married woman. I also sometimes flirt with my male friends. Some of my male friends are quite attractive.

Does this mean that they have any chance with me what so ever????

NO!!!!

Flirting is fun. It's a nice way to give each other a little bit of an ego boost and she'll come away feeling like she's still attractive to men in general which is nice to know.

If any of my male friends tried to kiss me or I got the feeling they had a real crush on me then I would have to end the friendship. It's not fair on anyone to let it carry on after that.

If you want to "get laid" then find a nice, well paid prostitute and go there.

If you want this woman's friendship on the understanding that nothing will ever ever happen more than the odd wink and nudge, then stick around and keep flirting.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009):

The fact that you say "get laid" put a really, really immature and selfish impression about you in my head. Do you really want to be the guy who ruins marraiges and breaks up families and ends up making people miserable.. for goodness sake, there are tons of available people out there!

Why must you go for this one lady? Just back out of this PLEASE before it is too late. Respect the fact that she has chosen someone and gotten married...

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntShe doesn't fantasise about you she is just flirting, as she knows you like her and all girls like to know a guy fancies them, it doesn't mean she likes you in that way.

You are in your 30's, and worrying about getting laid! Some how I doubt you are the type of guy a married woman is going to want to risk her marriage over!

And if you don't know how to seduce her, all the better, otherwise you will make yourself look like a right PRAT!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009):

Ask yourself why you want to seduce a married woman - is it the fact she is not 'available'?

We all have sexual thoughts about lots of people - does not mean we have to act on it or sleep with them. If you have to make so much effort to seduce her then maybe you should ask yourself if she really wants to be seduced - you sound a bit desperate to me.

I think you are making a lot of assumptions and perhaps your energy would be better spent going after someone who is not married.

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