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How do I convey to her I love her personality without being totally shot down in flames?

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Question - (30 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *yonHart writes:

Recently, I came out of what I call a "loner phase" where I think I don't need affection, and don't look for it. Ironically enough, I fell in love immediatley after "waking up" so to speak, with a girl I had a crush on in middle school when I saw her again. I asked her if she wanted to catch up because a lot has happened since then of course, she said she was up for it.

We haven't decided on a time and place yet, but when we do, I'm not sure how to convey that I have strong feelings for her without being shot down in the most horrific blaze I have ever seen. Keep in mind that these aren't sexual feelings, but that they come from deep in my heart and soul. The last girl I dated told me I was really kind, sweet, and caring but sadly you can't just look at a person and figure that out. And the physical attraction is there, yes, but I'm really in love with her personality. If anyoneone can help, I'd greatly appreciate it.

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A male reader, LyonHart United States +, writes (30 October 2009):

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LyonHart agony auntThanks guys, that really helps. I'll give you an update as things progress.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009):

tell her that you think she is the sweetest person you have ever met :) a compliment and telling her you love her personality :)

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