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writes:How can you tell if a guy you've been friends with for many years has developed a crush on you. We are past the point of long loving glances, as we look each other in the eyes when we talk anyway. I have fallen from him, but I don't want to screw things up by saying something if he thinks we're just friends as we've been all this years. We text almost daily. Besides the young lust crust how can you tell if a guy has developed feelings for you over the years? I try very hard to keep my feelings on the down low as not to scare him away if he doesn't feel the same, so I'm sure he has no idea I'm madly in love with him. Are there any signs that point to definite love vs. ONLY FRIENDS after 10 years of frienship?
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reader, Gridrebel +, writes (24 May 2010):
 I would ask him more serious questions while not being threatening. Work into your conversations things like: so, where do you want to be in 5, (10, 20 whatever) years? What would you do if you had 5 kids? You must know him pretty well by this time so that many things you wouldn't need to ask. I guess if you can't tell he isn't romantically attracted to you then, he isn't. Or, maybe he feels the same as you do and is behaving similarly so as not to run you off. I don't think so though. If you really want to be with him then the bottom line is, you're going to have to take the leap and ask him. Just do it!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 If a guy has no interest in you ,he would not spend his time with you .
His face would brighten up when you are around and he would like to engage you more in conversations.
He would put you first on his priorities.
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