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26-29,
anonymous
writes:ok i am engaged and i love my partner deeply, she is the love of my life. i have a fantasy, i would love to have a mmf threesome with her, the thought of watching her oral perform on another man, or having another man in here excites me alot. now i do not wish to just watch i want to be a participant. we talked about this the other day and she does not like it, she wants me to be the only man in her life. so i respect her thoughts but this is still a very exciting idea. so i guess i was wondering how we could simulate this with just us? or any ideas on how if possible to have her consider actualy doing this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): If she's not into the idea, then forget it. Seriously. Long solid relationships have ended because of such things, when girls disagreed to those fantasies and the guys still didn't give up.
Watch porn. Buy toys. Just don't insist with her.
Do you think just any girl would agree to that? Sure... if they're porn stars. The average girl wouldn't ever agree to that.
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reader, satindesire +, writes (6 January 2009):
 Oh honey, that's easy! Just get yourself some nice sex toys!
Girls of all ages love sex toys...they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and for all kinds of purposes.
I might suggest getting a life-sized, flesh-like dildo that has a suction cup base so she can attach it to your headboard, wall, or bathtub, and she can use it on herself while giving you oral...or vice versa!
Here are a few really nice websites where you can look at what kind of sex toy you'd like. Remember to include her in the purchasing, you don't want to spend good money on something like this and her end up not liking it!
I've had lots of good luck with these sites. Enjoy hon!
http://www.theadulttoyshoppe.com/
http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys-ch-950.aspx?sc=SEMGLSEX&cm_mmc=GGL-_-Sex%20Toys-_-sextoy-group-_-sex%20toys%20exact&gclid=CPTmxOTy-pcCFQw9GgodzR0iDA
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (6 January 2009):
 It is your fantasy not hers! she has told you she does not like the idea so forget it! you say you respect her thoughts now respect her wishes!
Gina
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 January 2009):
 Maybe a puppet? Don't expect her to change her mind on a real threesome, by the way.
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female
reader, Nimmie +, writes (6 January 2009):
Threesomes have always been a popular fantasy of many couples and really that is where it should stay. Many couples that do carry this fantasy out find that the trust has been broken and this is the end of the relationship. I think the best way to proceed is to actually discuss what she like or any shared fantasies that you may have it doesn't mean that they have to come true.
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