How can I truly know how he feels before I open up to him?

A female age 41-50, *isa1ohio writes:

I'm so confused. I have fallen head over hills for a guy friend of mine. At times he seems to be really interested in me then again it seems like he could care less (romantically). I want to tell him how I feel w/o jepordizing our friendship. At times we talk a couple of times a week and text quite a bit. Then we will go a couple of weeks w/o talking on the phone at all. When we don't talk we usually see each other on the weekends though. Sometimes he really opens up to me about how he feels then at other times he seems like he is ignoring me. I will convince myself he really isn't interested then I will see him and look into his eyes and it's like he is confessing his love to me right then and there! I want to follow my gut, which is telling me he really cares, but if he is just being a friend to me it could really make things awkward for a while. I would rather keep being his friend and try to win him over in time that let my feelings out and be met with unreturned affection. How can I truly know how he feels before I open up to him?

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