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36-40,
*emalespicolli
writes:I have a feeling that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating on me. We live together, and he goes out for "guys night" every Saturday and Sunday night. One of my boyfriend's friends has a girlfriend who does my hair. The other day she asked me why I never come with him to parties. I told her that I thought they were just for the guys, and she said that there are always a ton of girls there. Also, He says he always goes to one of his friends house all of the time. Lately his friends have been saying "that was fun at so-and-so's house", which is not the place he said he would be. Apparently he is lying about where he goes. He also never invites me. When I ask him about it, he gets very angry an calls me insecure and crazy.( I do have to wake up early on weekends for work, though, that's why I ususally dont make a big deal about it)He just lost a bunch of weight and his ego has gone straight through the roof. Our relationship has been on the rocks lately.He deletes his texts and recent phone calls on his cell phone, and any messages of comments from girls on his myspace. Something is up. I love him. What in the world should I do now?
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reader, femalespicolli +, writes (6 September 2009):
femalespicolli is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for your advice!
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reader, femalespicolli +, writes (5 September 2009):
femalespicolli is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe gets really angry when I try to talk to him about it. I have "trust issues", and get kind of upset when he leaves, so he accuses me of not letting him hang out with his friends.
Which in turn, puts a guilt trip on me. He makes me feel like i'm the one in the wrong for not "letting" him hang with his friends, even though he always goes out anyways.
I don't know...im so confused and feel like my heart is being pulled in two different directions. I want to believe him, but now i'm not so sure.
Getting his cell phone records seems a little too much I think. If he is "innocent" like he claims, that would make me into a crazed fool.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): Sorry to say this, but DUMP HIM!!!
I used to cheat on my girlfriends all the time and this is exactly how I used to act. I would take advantage of the fact that they worked in the weekends also and go out with the 'boys' all night. A real boyfriend with nothing to hide would never treat you this way...
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