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writes:dear cupid,There is a girl at school we are freinds but everytime i talk to a boy she say we should go out and it annoys me.I dislike it the most when she say that she always says it about boys who she knows i dont like and are unpopular. She usally gets picked on for being a little "big" and sometime i feel she does it to maek herself feel better i get told i am pretty and can get more or less who i want.I am a humble person and she really upsets me when she says i should go out with these boys who i would never go for there is this one boy in who i dont like at all and she says "we suit " it really annoys me casue i KNOW we dont how can i tell her just to back off? Reply to this Question
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (16 March 2008):
 She does it because it annoys you. She knows that you don't like these guys and that it will annoy you if she says what she says. You should tell her to stop and if she doesn't stop she's obviously keeping on because it annoys you. If this bugs you to a point where you can't stand it, maybe after telling her to stop you should get a friend who respects your boundaries.
Question though: What does being popular have to do with anything???
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reader, blueykisses +, writes (16 March 2008):
well stop being so shallow just because there not what you are attracted to doesnt mean there not people, second let her know how you feel and maybe stop being friends with her if she doesnt stop let it be know you dont like these guys and also maybe to try and find a guy on your own and be with him to show her hey this is my type
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): tell her that you and the boy were talking about her... maybe that will give her more self confidenc.,.
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