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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I really am being to think its me. I am with someone who bends over backwards to make sure I'm comfortable but isn't very passionate when it comes to being affectionate. When I ask him to be, he reacts in disbelief and says I get all this attention etc etc. I guess its more then he's used to giving but less then I'm used to getting...It really bothers me that I'm not feeling it with him yet we've got so much else going for us. I just don't know if this is really grounds for leaving after 1.5 yrs. The only time I get the intensity I want from him is when we have broken up before over this. Then I take him back and he cools off again.Please don't suggest that I should work for his attention. A woman like me shouldn't have to. I don't know how much more I can take tho. Now its getting to the point where every little thing bothers me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Helen Help! :)  +, writes (3 May 2007):
 mayb he jus doesnt no how to give anymore tell him what ude like to b done to you jus liddle things like holdin your hand while your watchin a movie or cuddlin up n havin a kiss every night b4 u go to sleep if he loves u he wont mind doin these things to keep u happy good luck. :)
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