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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My wife and kids are my world. My wife and I have been together for 13 years, living together for 10, ( Ive concidered her my wife that long), married for 7. She was my first love and I hope my only love. Before we were married, she moved out for two months and became involved with another man. Apparently having sex with this man is what made her realize she wanted me. I've been plagued with flashbacks of those two month on and off. She became pregnant shortly after our reconciliation, and we married. She means the world to me and I'm just trying to figure out if it's mutual. How do I tell if she really loves me or is just comfortable?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2012): what is your wife doing or not doing, right now, that is making you doubt her love for you? has she become detached and uninterested in you? has there been a lot of conflict between you? Has she said things that make you think she does not love you?
have you been doubting her feelings for you for the last 7 years?
are you afraid she's going to leave you or that she's having an affair?
your doubts could be based in real issues in your relationship, or it could be due to your insecurities only. it's hard to tell from your post which is more likely
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 September 2012):
 and if she does not love you and is just comfortable what will change?
will you leave?
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reader, rcn +, writes (4 September 2012):
 Only you an answer that...but if it took "sex" to make her choose between you and another man, it seems she puts to much stock in the physical, and not emotional bonding with someone. What I wonder is what are you feeling that is causing you to question if she does or not?
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