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writes:Hi thereI'm 14 and have not had a proper relationship with someone yet. I really like this girl at my school but am not sure if she likes me or not. I have not told anyone and do not talk to anyone about her because I don't really have anyone. So I joined this site. How can I tell her I like her without actually telling her? Like hints body language etc. I'm nervous around girls and have been for a long time. but with her its just different. I can speak and laugh with her and hang around and that. But I'm not sure if she likes me like that? Thanks in advance Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): congrats on her sayin yes, i told the guy i like how i felt n he asked me out the next day. good for both of us :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): dude I'm the same way, I've liked this chick for a long ass time but I'm too much of a puss to ask her out. The first thing I did to get her (or in attempting to get her in my case) was to talk to one of her friends and tell them. You know, get that chicks trust you and see if she can help you. I did that and the chick I told was brutally honest with me... that I didn't have a chance. I'm still trying though.
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reader, deeboy55 +, writes (13 February 2009):
deeboy55 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI asked her and she said yes :D
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reader, deeboy55 +, writes (5 February 2009):
deeboy55 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks that helped loads
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): im in a similar situation but from a girls point of veiw, so things that hint that a guy likes you its hard to explain, but if you ask this girl stuff about her personality like what music she is into and what programmes she watches she will know you want to find out more about her, and one obvious question would be to ask her is she fancies anyone or who she would like to go out with in her science class or something along those lines. Also show her you care, ask her how she is and if shes upset don't try and force anything out of her this is a real turn off.
Body language- get close to her, tap her on the shoulder when you want to ask her something, or brush your arm against her when you walk past.
Hope I've helped
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reader, deeboy55 +, writes (4 February 2009):
deeboy55 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. Im not suggesting that i want to put on an act or fake anything. I wouldnt dream of it. I just want to no how i can Let her know
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reader, childof1981  +, writes (4 February 2009):
 This question has been asked a lot and the answer is always the same. You are attempting to send a mixed signal to this girl to protect your emotions . . DO NOT DO IT! What you don't want this girl doing is posting on this site . . with the following "I don't know if this guy likes me . . . he does some things that make me think he does . . but then he does XYZ and I can't tell".
You have to lay your romantic intentions out on the table for her to see and make a choice. She may not be interested and that hurts but I can say you will both be happier in the long run.
PS. Don't try and be a friend if you want to be a boyfriend, it's dishonest and you will not get what you want out of the relationship.
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