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writes:My boyfriend and i have been through alot! we have a 7 month old daughter, i dont know where to start. few the past few weeks things with my boyfriend and i have been great! they couldn't be better. he is super nice he tells me he loves me every minute of the day. he says im beautiful. and cuddles with me, holds my hand. he use to spend most of his time with his best friend now he spends most his time with me. we went from not going out and doing anything to going out and doing something when we don't have the baby. one day he brought up the word marriage and told me he wanted to marry me one day.. but there is one problem. back in october. i went through his phone and he had pictures of this girl that we use to have problems with causing drama between him and i. and it was pictures of he in her bra, then they was regular pictures and then they was pictures of her boobs. he said once before that those pictures meant nothing to him they was just pictures they was sent to him back in march of last year i think when we was broke up. and then a few was sent in september again when i think we was broke up. we have been together for a year and 4 months. and our relationship hasn't been all that good. we have had problems in our relationship things have finally started going great since last month i think...every since i seen those pictures i dont trust him with a phone. and he knows i do. if i ask to look at his phone he said he would let me he said the only pictures he has one his phone is of me (nothing bad)he has almost cheated on me and i found out about it and when i found out and was hurt by it he new he tried everything he could to make me feel better. he has said he wont ever cheat on me with anyone..... how can i stop letting the past creep up on me and make me up set?
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (28 February 2012):
Hi there. Who is this girl who sent him pictures of herself?
Is she a past girlfriend, and was it serious?
It's a good idea to not go through someone else's phone, because it is private property after all.
You probably wouldn't like it if he went through your phone would you? You would feel that your privacy was being invaded, and it would be!
Even if he doesn't seem to mind, he still probably doesn't like it, but he just doesn't say it.
It would be wise to just not go down that path anymore, then you are not goung to see something that will upset you. So it will be a case of out of sight and out of mind.
You just won't be putting yourself in that situation anymore, so there will no longer be a problem.
Only then will you find peace.
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