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How can I speak to him without ruining the way things are?

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Question - (2 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Background Info.

Met a lad around 2 years ago, was completly besotted with him. Spent around 3 months of seeing him all the time. There was a family crisis and we moved so we drifted apart.

So heres my problem, recently started to talk to him again. We speak via msn and skype all the time. Its like a virtual relationship its brilliant. But i dont know how he see's me. Like if i started to see someone else would that be cheating, if he did could i be bothered with out seeming crazy. last night we chatted for like 6 hours online and he came out with lots of things that was a bit random, ill give a example. He asked me if i remebered (from the previous time we was seeing each other) when i was on the phone to him and as i put the fone down i said bye, i love you. Well it took me by complete surprise and i was so embarrased that he brought it up, why would he bring that up it was completly out of the blue, and he started telling me that he was thinking about it all night.

Its so confusing! How can i speak to him with out ruining how things are?!

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A male reader, jc2008 United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2010):

I hate it when we have to move for parents jobs, family reasons etc. All I can honestly say from my experience is people grow apart and you can never go back to a place and expect everything to be the same. I'm speaking from experience here! I wouldn't pussyfoot round him, go meet up with him and see what hes like in person now, theres no reason to say it won't work.

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