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41-50,
*ickwolfx4
writes:My girlfriend and I have recently stopped having sex, because we felt it was happening too much but she recently brought across that she still loves me but shes not happy anymore but she tells me she cant picture her life without me. I give her everything she wants, Im always right there. She said to me You never give me a challenge or a reason to want you. I want you to grow a pair and tell me what it is. I dont know what that means. I just need help, you guys have any suggestions on how to make her happy again or what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (8 October 2009):
 Well maybe you need to be a little more attentive to the things you need out of the relationship. Right now you're saying you're all give and no take. She's saying, "take". So if you want sex, tell her you want it. If not, ignore her a little bit, and then maybe throw her a scrap of attention. Then see what happens.
I think she's asking you to role-play but its not clear. But that's what it sounds like.
I'll bet she's got a few fantasies about you that you don't know about -- yet. Maybe figure out what they are, ask her, and then surprise her by being dominant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): I honestly think that u should ignore her and stop giving her too much attention some girls want a man to chase after and if she knows that she has you wrapped on herr fingeer it gets boring and shed want something new...if she don't look for u then she don't diserve u! look for someone new as well good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): Maybe she wants you to be more assertive with yourself, not to be there for her back and call if you get what i mean.
If she askes to see you, sa you're busy so she cannot see you, therefore giving her a "challenge"
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hope you two get back to normal soon :))
xx
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