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How can I prove my faithfulness to her?

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Question - (15 November 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

Please help me! My girlfriend freaked out on me and thinks I am cheating on her. How can I prove my faithfulness to her and prove that she is the only love in my life and I am not interested in other women?

Here is what happened...

I was with her while she was driving in her car. I had pulled out my phone jokingly commenting on how unpopular I was. I had opened my flip phone and shown her that I had no messages or calls. I was holding the phone up to phone while she had her hands on the wheel (mind you, the wallpaper on the phone has per picture.)

I was asking about the call history, and I had pulled the phone to show her the received and sent calls (she was driving mind you)

All of a sudden she got angry because she seemed to think I was trying to sieze the phone from her to keep her from looking at the call history...when exatly the opposite was true...I was going to show her the page that information was on to ahow her....but somehow, she was convinced I was trying to hide something from her...

But the way I have learned things .... women do not like to tell you about things that anger them until much later on. So I didnt even know she got angry about this until ten minutes later when we were waiting for food in the drive through.

SO here I am trying to defend myself....about "snatching the phone from her" ... and I am trying mightily not not only believing that this ia a point of centention, but that she even believed that I was trying to snatch the phone.

I didnt know what to do or say. She wouldn't let me touch her. She would not let me talk to her saying it was sweet-talking. She would not accept my truthful words of "I love you" Nothing could penetrate her belief that I had snatched the phone from her and was trying to keep her from looking at it directly and also...to add to the fire, she believed I had snatche it from her to "erase the information!

I had parted with her today on bad terms bacause of this. She had to go to work... and she didn't speak to me or acknowledge me. I know this is just crazy but I am heart-broken and grasping for answers here...

Please tell me what I can or should do?

I love her I do not or ever conceive of cheating on her. HELP!!

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