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41-50,
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writes:I recently went on a blind date with a guy, and we really hit it off. We have met up about four times now, and slept together. I like him but I'm scared in case it is just a bit of a laugh for him, in which case I don't want to continue seeing him. Although he has said he isn't just looking for one night stands, what we have is still quite casual, because we haven't discussed dating other people. When he was dating another girl, he ended it because she was seeing other people. However, he also ended it with another girl he was seeing because she was too clingy. How do I approach the subject in a casual way without freaking him out? Thanks :D
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (14 January 2008):
 Relax... and see where this thing goes.
I know how anxious one can get when you really get quickly attached to some-one. Been there, done that! If I were you... I would wait for him to bring it up. Hold your tongue.
Just continue being sweet, affectionate, and go with the flow. I think it is too early to bring up any sensitive subjects.
Meanwhile... don't date anyone else. Because that would be abruptly turn off him off.
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