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*kink90
writes:Well, I've known this girl for about four days now, were already getting along like we've known each other for ages, were both quite touchy feely when were hanging out. My problem is that I'm so madly attracted to her that I can't sleep very well etc, but I don't want to ask her out too soon and ruin our friendship!! How can I make sure she likes me enough to not be offended or say "I only like you as a friend" when I make a move! Help me please!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Skink90 +, writes (8 August 2007):
Skink90 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the advice so far, the girl I'm talking about is currently away for two weeks so I'll let you know what happens when she gets back! (:
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reader, penta  +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Time to move, and quickly. Take it from this girl: don't give her time to PUT you into the friend zone. Be up front with her and ask her out, otherwise she's going to assume you're not interested. Try asking her out for something easy, like coffee. Good luck.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Man, I would recommend that you keep hanging out with her until you see some clear signs. The question here is whether she likes you enough, and that comes from HER. If she likes you, well, fine; if she doesn't, fine, too. If she likes you at all, she has already thought this out and may be waiting for the right moment.
Wait a little and pay attention to the signs.
Now, one comment: whenever you fancy a person, you have to accept that she might not want your love. There is no way to escape this. So, if and when you see the signs, go for her. Be bold. Don't freak out thinking she might not like you. Your chances are 50/50 ALL THE TIME.
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reader, Ladyme  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Hey
as a girl the same age group as you, i would prefer the boy to just be outright with me and tell me how he feels.
If she is reacting to what you are doing then its all good signs. How bout just asking her out on her own first to like get a drink or something just like a friendly meeting. If she responds well then you know that she is keen.
I hope it all works out for you xxxxxxxxxxxx
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