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writes:Hi, lemme just cut to the chase.When me and my GF have sex, I usualy give her a clitiral orgasm before the penetration, so to speak.But I feel like i wanna do something more... special to her, so i searched the net about the G-spot, about where to find it, how to find it, and how to stimulate it.Now, I havnt tried it out yet but in a video i saw, the man described that you would do a "come here" finger motion on the "spot". He also said to be rough.Now, he demonstrated on a model, so I have no clue if he is doing it right or not. So the question:When i do it, should i be rough or non-rough.Do you have another tip for me about how to stimulate it?Thanks a million.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (28 June 2009):
 You can find my descriptions about G-spot stimulation in this Web site's archives, including how to locate it and possibly induce a combined clitoral and G-spot orgasm. The degree of stimulation, whether rough or more gentile, depends upon the individual woman, but my experience is that the procedures can become more and more vigorous as she nears climax.Using the search field above, enter "double m on G-spot" and also try other terms, such as orgasm, climax, clitoris and more.The "come hither motion" also seems most effective as the woman approaches orgasm. Just remember that a female climax is all about "anticipation" and a gradual layering of sensual stimulation that she relies upon you to provide. It is analogous to a crescendo in music.
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reader, Harry Castle  +, writes (28 June 2009):
 I hope you will forgive my copy-and-paste, but I wrote this in response to a similar question from a female and I'm such a slow and lousy typist!"A task for you; just a simple one... Tonight, when you are alone and not likely to be disturbed, I want you to examine your pussy... Closely. Prop yourself up in bed, and part your legs but closes your heels together. In other words, like frogs legs. This opens up your pussy nicely, and your heels give you something to prop a mirror on - although you may need a cushion as well. Get it so that you can get a clear view of your wide-open pussy, and start to expose your clit. Take a good look at things so that you can see every detail: how the hood covers it, what you need to expose it, how your lips fold and wrinkle - all that sort of thing. I bet you haven't had a really good look before? When you have inspected fully, just try playing with your bits and finding out how to give yourself most pleasure. Pay particular attention to your clit: the tip is especially sensitive, but it often matters which side you rub, too.You don't HAVE to cum, but you just might! Now, open really wide and go in search of your g-spot. [An area of controversy here. ALMOST all women achieve intense orgasms via g-spot stimulation, but there are some for whom it does very little. Hope that won't be you.]Feel along the front wall of your vagina, inside you, for a roughened area of skin about 1-2 inches in.Everywhere else will be smooth, and if you are at all aroused it should be a little plump, too. The plumpness is due to the fact that is a spongy tissue similar to a penis, except that is does not engorge with blood but fills with a fluid upon arousal.Stimulation of the area really fills the sponge with fluid and can result in ejaculation during orgasm, much to your delight!It is NOT urine, although it does share the same exit duct. It is colourless, not yellow and has been shown not to contain any urine; so don’t worry, you won’t pee yourself!This next step maybe a little difficult for you to implement yourself, but easy for the b/f when he is with you.Get him to put a finger or two on your g-spot and apply pressure. Then his thumb on your clit and clamp them together, like pincers.Retaining this grip, have him pump back and forth with his hand so as to give both clit and g-spot maximum stimulation, and keep going until you reach your goal.....What you do now is up to you. You can leave it at that, if you are strong-willed enough, or go on to find out what stimulates you to orgasm! Have fun, and tell me about it, please."I'm sure you can translate the above to suit yourself, and do it together?Harry.
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