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writes:I'm having problems with my girlfriend.I just am losing motovation and am starting not 2 care as much anymore. but I know if I really did lose her I'd go insane. will someone please help me with ideas to save this? idk, give me a whole day that would make everything perfect. Both of our parents might get a divorse and its really hard. we both want help and want 2 help each other, but its really hard. Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, ladycharm  +, writes (20 December 2007):
 if you really want to be with your girlfriend try going out on dates and spending time together. i think when two people are in a relationship and they feel bord its because all the passion and romance has been taken out of the relationship. try anything and everything to get a bit of romance into the relationship and if it doesn't work then maybe its not ment to be, good luck
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (20 December 2007):
 Sorry, what does idk mean, I don't care? Hey, I'm so far out of this loop, I don't have a clue! lol.The beginning of every relationship has a life of it's own. It drives itself, all of the heart-fluttering, mind-racing thoughts of love, the adrenaline rushes, the pining, new love is a big rush. After a while, that gives way to a more relaxed and comfortable love, you simply love each other and are each other's closest friends, and want to be with that person. They are the people you want to rush to tell things, who you share with. Perhaps this is the change that you have seen in your relationship? The change from the rush to a deeper connection? It sounds like it if you are worrying about her problems about her parents getting a divorce. If you want to know the rules for making it work -Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely; does not seek its own; is not provoked; thinks no evil; does not rejoice in inequity; but rejoices in the truth; Love bears all things; believes all things; hopes all things; endures all things. Love never fails. It a small bit of one of the most beautiful passages in the bible. That's probably the best description of pure love that I have ever read. Hope it helped.
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