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How can I know if I am stimulating her properly?

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Question - (27 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I frequently finger my girlfriend and I understand the concept of stimulating the clitoris but I have heard many places that when aroused it sticks out. I'm sure she is aroused because she gets very "wet" but when I have my finger there I can't feel anything sticking out. I'm wondering if I'm not stimulating it completely or at all. She tells me that its pleasuring and frequently asks me to do it to her but my question is is there a way that I can kno I'm stimulating it properly? I want to give her as much pleasure as I can and this would really help.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010):

mines exactly the same as hers, i wouldnt evevn know it was there if it didnt feel so good! ha when i was little i used to worry i didnt have one and i thought my life was runied but dont worry, every girls different

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2010):

starfairy agony auntNot all girls are the same :) If she's wet, you're doing it right, you'd more want to worry if she wasn't :)

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A male reader, Welsh Uncle Dave United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2010):

They all vary, some stick out some don't. If she's wet you're on the right lines.

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