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writes:Hi, How do I know if I'm in love with my friend? I think I am, but he doesn't feel the same way. It seems as though I'm trying to deny the fact that I love him to avoid future rejection and heartbreak. It's difficult to admit to loving someone knowing that they don't love you back. I told him about this, and he says that I don't really love him because I have no reason to. I don't have a reason not to, and it's not as if I can control my feelings for him. I'm not sure if this is love or infatuation or what, and it's just confusing. Can anyone offer any tips for my situation? Thanks so much! :) Reply to this Question
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reader, lovelynightmare +, writes (20 February 2009):
 Tell him the "reason" is because he is who he is.That's the whole reason behind good relationships, is that a person is unique and attractive (phys. ment. emotionally) and that they would make a good "compliment" to ourselves by being, will, deed and sacrifice. If he refuses to see you love him, then he isn't worth it and you should move on.lovelynightmare
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): unfortunately love is the type of thing that is beautiful when the person you love, loves you back. If they dont then it sucks and hurts.....dont wanna be harsh but u gotta tell him you love him and he either feels the same or he doesnt. if he doesnt you just have to move on, theres always someone out there...hope that helped
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