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anonymous
writes:Me and Boyfriend have a strange sex life. we have sex but im not sure if its enough or too much sex. he likes the whole bondage thing with rope... don't mind it at all. hes also in to sexy clothes and stuff. but my question is i want sex more than he does. he can turn me on and doesn't do anything at all about it. but when he wants it he gets it...when i want it i don't.. what am i doing wrong??? what can i do to have a better more exiting sex life???
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009): Just ask him wat he wants and b free.I feel u coz my man behaves that way 2.I usualy ask 4it in a polite way or we get in2 same dirty talk or game tht makes us ol horny&w av th best sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk... i will try both and see what works... but i know i have have told him or asked him if he wanted to have sex cuz i was turned on... his normal reaction is im to tired im not in the mood... i cant touch u or you will get turned on... their are times wear i feel like i have to change for him to want me... like i have to be like one of his exs or something... and when i am with him he plays halo live on his xbox360... i told him how i feel bout it but nothing ever changes...HELP!!!!
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reader, forever-and-ever  +, writes (22 November 2009):
You could just ask him if he wants to do anything different, be honest to him. Hes probably thinking the same thing you are. If you feel you are having sex too much. Maybe stop and see what he does. Then you guys will totally get turned on because you will have a long conversation and be honest with eachother. Just see what happens :)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 November 2009):
Why don't you try asking him more, or iniating it more. He might be unsure of how you're feeling at the time, so try initiating it. Guys aren't all great at reading the hints that women send out. Clear is best. If you want it, make it clear you want it and initiate it. I doubt he'll say no.
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