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writes: oktheres this boy who i really likehes in the year aboveand i see him around school and once a week at an orchestra clubat that orchestra, i have to sit right over the other side of the room from him because i play a totally different instrument. my friend who knows i like him plays an instrument that gets to sit quite close to him. They talk to each other a bit. Sometimes i catch him looking at me.At the end, when we can talk a bit, he looks at me alot.i really want to get to know him better and i don't want him to like my friend better than me because she likes someone else. i really like him, does he like me? how can i get to know him better? please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, MetalMan  +, writes (11 January 2008):
 firstly is your freind has somone else and knows you like him then theres nothing to worry about in that department, guys don't just like whoever's in front of them because they're there.
when you're settiing up or packing up try putting your stuff near his (next to is best) that way your giving yourself an oppertunity to talk to him. other options are seeing if you have any mutral freinds (also doubles up as a convosation topic) or seeing if he does anything else (like clubs) which you could "accidentally" meet at.
personally i think that wading straight in and giving out numbers is a bit rash, start by just chatting to him get to know him a bit at least to start with then i think it's allright to start asking about numbers or e mail or somthing like that.
just be yourself and remember that guys are scared and nervous too
#high fives#
!!good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): Making conversation is the best way to get to know someone. So yeah - talk to him. When you're talking find something that you have in common to talk about.... And lateryou could ask him whether he would like to hang out with you some time!!
I guess the other thing you could do is ask whether he has msn or myspace or facebook etc and get his screen name well unless you don't use them!! If you don't giving him your number could be good!!!
Hey! Good luck x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): Just go talk to him. Ask your friend if he's said anything about you. But other than that just go talk to the guy! After your practice or before if you have time, talk to him. Give him your number so he can call and you can talk more. And as Cosmo Girl would say "Smile and make eye contact!" its the best way to flirt. lol Hope this helps.
Addison
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