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writes: Hello everyone, I've never done this before, but I am having some problems that in my head are really big.I have been with my girlfriend for over two years and we have lived together for about a year and are quite serious. A couple of days ago on her birthday we all went out and got really drunk, as the night went on I wasn't feeling great so went and sat outside for a bit by myself. When I came back in after a few minutes I turned around and saw her snogging one of her friends. I walked out.She couldn't remember any of it and I really want to forgive her, but all I can see is them kissing. I know it was only because she was drunk, but I just can't stop thinking about it. She's trying to be supportive and is soo apologetic, but I just want to get over it and can't yet.Has anyone been in the same situation? Can I ever get this image out of my head and get on with our relationship? I also wish I had done something other than just walk out. I know have no idea what happend after I left and how long this kiss went on for.Sorry it's a long question. I'm just so confused.Thanks for any help coming.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2005): being drunk isnt an exucse! so everytime she gets drunk is she going to kiss any other men? if she gets really drunk is she going to sleep with them? she had no right to do what she did everybody says a kiss is harmless but it isnt what would she do if you kissed her female best friend? she is appologising because she feels guilty. two years is a long time to be with someone ive been with my parnter for 3 years and we have a child together, if i caught him kissing somebody else that would be the end of our relationship, but your not me? i think you should move on, get a girl who will respect you. if you choose to stay with this girl i wish you all the luck in the world just watch out! x
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reader, missdee +, writes (18 September 2005):
We all make mistakes. It will take time to forget but work on forgiving her for what she has done, for now.
I have been in the same situation. It took time, but I was able to get over it. Concentrate on making your relationship better, instead of a one time mistake. Sometimes things like this happen to bring us closer together with our partners.
You need your girlfriend to tell you everything that happen or didn't happen. Then you can start to rebuild your trust for her.
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