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writes:after been in a 3 year relationship which ended badly as he was seeing another girl behind my back for i have stayed single for the last 7 years. now i have meet this lovely guy but i am so frightned of getting close to him because of my past and its pushing him away. how can i get over my past and move on???
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reader, petina1  +, writes (1 October 2009):
 Forget about the past. Not all men are like that. With the past experience you now will be able to read the signs more if anything is wrong and get out earlier. Enjoy the new man in your life. If he sees you are wary he will not like the fact that you are not willing to give him a chance and put some trust in him. If this is not the man for you then it was not meant to be. You'll get there in the end. You have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince. Good Luck, hope this helps.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 October 2009):
You have to start by realizing that this new guy is completely different from your cheating ex. Take it nice and slow, get time to get to know each other so you know you can trust him. And when you do get to know him, expain to him about how you feel so he understands. If he's a good guy, he'll listen and be ready.
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