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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Recently my boyfriend and i of two years broke up suddenly when he had a "breakdown" and had to move out of state where he grew up all his life.... i took him to the airport and he called me when he had a layover but i missed his calls and he never called me again. its been almost 3 months and for some reason i cant get over him! he wasnt the greatest boyfriend with just being sneeky and got in his moods but i loved him to death! we also had very good times as well and got eachother.... its hard also cause we lived together and that he left so fast it hurt me. also he said it wasnt that he was unhappy with our relationship but that he was unhappy with himself but then i heard from a mutual friend that my ex told him "it was his way out" that hurt me so, i was very good to him. i just want this pain to go away. why do i still want to talk to him he left me with no help 3 days b4 rent was due and took my "music equiptment" cause he didnt want a guy to use it. and i needed my equiptment so that i could further my career. he also said one day we can get married but was he just trying to brush me off?? he is extremely manipulative and i feel a spell was put on me cause id never put up with the crap he put me thru. what is my problem i feel so stupid, and mostly mad cause in a sick way i feel that i need him in my life. He seems to be fine and happy. i want to be happy too and not start thinking about him when im out or just doing random daily tasks...... please help.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (22 July 2008):
 Nasty. The bad boys can get a grip on a girl like that. Manipulation is terrible, they are very clever people usually. And you know they are because you know you would never of put up with being treated those ways before and probably never will again. Its just the art they have.
There isn't a lot you can do apart from let time pass. He filled a lot of your time, its almost like giving up smoking when you come out of an intnse relationship. You just have to do the cold turkey, remember how bad it was for you really, and try and keep busy. Before you know it, you will be looking back and thinking nope, that wasn't the guy for me, and even if you had the chance, you wouldnt get back with him.
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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