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writes: ok i just started going out with this totaly awsome guy, but im afriad that hes still not totaly over his ex gf. she was really controlling, and really kinda messed him up, even though he never really relised it. I really want to help him reilise that im totaly differnt,and that he can decide things too. but im not totaly sure how to tell him that he can decide sum things too, and have some freedom with me! i really want him to understand that im sooo easy going, and stuff.pls help! i really want us to work out! and i think this is importaint to make him understand this, right away!thanks soo much!
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reader, rcn  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 Just by actions. As long as you remain consistent in your actions, he'll begin catching on. She trained him by control, you'll retrain him by the lack of.
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