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writes:I just recently posted a question about my ex boyfriend of 2 1/2 years joining the Navy. The other day, he said that he forgave me for not supporting him initially, but then he still said it is over. I am heart broken, because I have done everything i could to demonstrate that i support him. later that day, i sent him an email saying that i need closure, but he has not emailed me back. What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): You have closure you just aren't ready to accept it. Its over. Closure doesn't come from him, it comes from your own heart. Its a gift you give yourself and it takes time.
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reader, Ask oldersister  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 He has broken up with you despite all you have done to support and love him. It's over and you have closure. At this time, he doesn't seem willing to go into details about why you aren't right for him and he probably won't in order to spare your feelings. If you have done a tremendous amount for this guy and given him everything, the less likely he will be honest about why he doesn't want to be with you because the more guilty he will feel about it. Him forgiving you has nothing to do with his generosity towards you and has everything to do with him not having to carry the baggage of your relationship with him wherever he goes. The only thing you can do is forgive him as well so you can move on from this and start fresh with a new relationship whenever that time is right.
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