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How can I get a guy to fall in love with me?

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Question - (9 January 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2012)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

how can i get a guy to fall in love with me, even when he says he likes me and other girls?

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A male reader, MajorDisplayerOfInternationalPlayerBehavior United States +, writes (9 January 2012):

MajorDisplayerOfInternationalPlayerBehavior agony auntHello,

I do agree with Honeypie totally.

But, there are certain strategies that can be used, although there is no guarantee. Sometimes, if you suddenly ignore him, it will grab his attention. He may become interested in you because he cannot figure out why you aren't giving him attention or trying hard to win him over.

Bottom line is, be confident, think positive, and ignore him. He will wonder what you're doing and hopefully, he will devote more time to you.

As for the love... you have to give love to receive love. If you love a person, let them know in actions and words.

But, I would say to ignore him first, and wait for a reaction from him, to be sure that he is really interested. Just like Honeypie stated, "if you have to chase him down to try to make him like you, he most likely isn't that into you."

Try ignoring him for a week, and see what happens.

Good luck!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (9 January 2012):

Honeypie agony auntYou can't MAKE people fall in love with you. You can show them who you are. You can be yourself.

If you have to chase down a guy and try to "make" him like you, he most likely isn't that into you. So don't waste time on him.

If he says he likes you AND other girls.. He doesn't know what he wants.

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