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writes:What's the best way to fall back in-love with a boy you really like? I had asked this boy earlier to blatantly be my boyfriend and he didn't think twice to say no.....But I know I don't like him as much as he likes me...And I feel really guilty. Cause he's a really great guy and he's a gentleman and he treats me really well...Will theses feelings of "love" come with time or can I speed up the process? Reply to this Question
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (20 April 2010):
 Not-my-Name is quite right in saying you can't manufacture feelings for someone when they the feelings) just aren't there.
I don't see that you have anything to feel guilty about, you know. Try to forgive yourself and just enjoy his company when he's around. I wouldn't think about feelings of "love" at this point either; just be a good friend. If "love" does come, it will do so in it's own time, and is better to let it unfold naturally - or not, as the case may be.
Good luck!
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (20 April 2010):
 You can't make yourself feel something for someone. It is either there or it isn't.
Since it isn't you should not have asked him out, ...but good (for him)that he said no, so I suggest just leave it at that.
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