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writes:my boyfriend is going in the raf soon, and he is gonna be going away for months.its breaking my heart cos i know that im not gonna be able to see him. i see him near enough every day. we've been together over a year now.im just so upset i dont know what to do.i know this is what he wants. what can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): i know what your going through, my boyfriend who i been with for over a year is in the army. he goes away for months and it still hurts to be away from him, it was tough at first but we got through it and we are still going strong. but like you said this is what he wants, you should support is decision although its hard, he'll be happy that you will still stick by him. trust me you will miss him alot that it hurts but in time you will get use to it, you can write to eachother, call, email and he will visit you whenever he can i expect. right now your hurting, i was hurting so bad when my boyfriend went away but in time i just got use to it...but if you really dont want him to go tell him how you feel, but then he might always resent you for not allowing him to follow his dream, but its best to tell him how you feel about this. i let mine go because i love him and support him in whatever he does... i have to admit i felt like stopping him from going but i never, but thats your choice. hope this advice helped. :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 April 2010):
The military has support groups for the spouses of those who are away a lot of the time, so it might be worth you doing some research into them, and maybe you could meet other girls your own age who also have boyfriends away, so you all understand each other and have something in common.
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