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How can I convince a lover to stay without throwing myself at them?

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Question - (9 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

how could i show someone that i love them and want to be with them, and convince them not to leave out of state without actually throwing myself at them?

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A female reader, Good Girl United States +, writes (9 November 2009):

Good Girl agony auntWhen in doubt, give. Even if he still decides to go...he may come back soon when he realizes what he left behind. Just throw yourself at him!

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A female reader, HereAreMyTwoCents United States +, writes (9 November 2009):

HereAreMyTwoCents agony auntIf you truly love them, pride should not be an issue, and if the last chance you have is to throw yourself at them, then that is what you should do. That is, if they are worth it. A life lived without emotion is not a life lived at all.

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A female reader, Lexie88 Australia +, writes (9 November 2009):

Lexie88 agony auntIf they can't see that you love them and want to be with them there really isn't much you can do. A person needs to make their own mind up and want to stay with you.

The only thing you can do is be honest and adult about the whole situation. Tell them how you feel and what you want and let them make their own decision. Give them time and space and let them come to you.

If they don't, then don't take this as a failure on your part. You gave them an option and they chose not to take it...it's up to them. Things usually work out the way they're meant to.

Good luck :)

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