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writes:so I just found out that a good friend of mine who lives abroad, was screwing around with my first bf while i was with him. my first thought when she told me aftr 2 years of being such a nice person to her was what a bitch. other than that. i just got back together with my 2nd bf for the second time ... i know i know.. thats a big risk im taking going back to him but i thought what the hell, it never felt like it was over in the first place. He's a sweetheart but since we are so on and off, and in my opinion maybe not too stable... and after hearing this from her, i felt trust issues were popping out for me again. is this normal or should i just slap myself out of it and live my life with him and see what happens. i dont want to ruin this relationship just because of what she said . I told him what happend and what she told me, and he was shocked but ofcourse he doesnt think i am having these thoughts(other).
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reader, raiders  +, writes (23 April 2010):
 If your are willing to give it another try than go for, do keep in mind that he cheated on you with your friend that is a double NO NO, but if you can live past this and forgive him than go for it. Best of luck- people do change I don't believe in once a cheater always a cheater, so hopefully your boyfriend has changed.
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