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anonymous
writes:Me and my fiance have been together almost two years. For the most part, everything is good, but lately things have been starting to fall apart. Any time he gets angry, he storms off, goes home, calls the next day and apologizes, but never actually ever talks about the issue. We argue all the time lately, over very insignificant things, and he tells me I act like a child, he doesn't wanna deal with it, doesn't want any drama for just one day. Sometimes even complaining about how I only want to have sex at night. And I'm starting to feel like he's seriously unhappy with our relationship. This is very..depressing for me, cause I'm tired of him running away from every argument we have, and nothing ever gets resolved. How can a relationship possibly be happy when it seems like the other doesn't want to be in it anymore. Any advice on how to handle this, I don't know what to do anymore?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (19 November 2011):
 It can't. You have to have TWO (or more!) people participating in a "relationship" in order for it to be successful.....Good luck....
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 November 2011):
 Instead of opening up to you he is bottinling everything up inside and then he keeps exploding over silly things and that is what is causing so many arguments. I take it he does not like confrontation or speaking about his feelings so he tries and keeps it to himself which only make matters worse. All relationships go through bad patches. But if you both are wanting to get married and settle down well then he needs to be able to talk to you about how he feels and address the issues that he has.
Most men don't like talking about there feelings that much is true. But this relationship is in trouble if he does not stop running out when things get tough. Sit him down and tell him how you feel. Open up to him, ask him to open up to you or else this relationship is in trouble. I know its hard if he is not prepared to talk about it, but I guess all you can do is try. Good luck.
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