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How big of an age gap do you think is too big? I'm seeing a guy who's 25 years older.

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Question - (7 July 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Just a quick question,

How big of an age gap do you think is too big?

I am seeing some one 25 years older than me.. is the difference too much?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2007):

How will you feel about it in 10 yrs time i wonder...... ok for a fling but a huge difference for long-term.

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A female reader, Leeya United States +, writes (8 July 2007):

The age gap in your case sounds like it isn't a problem. If you are both happy, then that is all that matters. You are old enough to decide what is right for you. Many successful relationships have been between people with large age gaps.

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A female reader, bubbloo24 Isle of Man +, writes (7 July 2007):

bubbloo24 agony auntAs the others have said, you're happiness is the only thing that matters. It doesn't matter what we think or what anyone thinks. My parents have been together for 26 years and they have a large age gap.

I'm with someone who's quite a bit older than me and I've never been happier.

You're old enough to make your own decisions, as yummymummy said, if you were a young teenager it would be a different story.

Have fun, take care and do what you want to do :)

xxxx

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (7 July 2007):

kenny agony auntIf you are both ok with the age gap then there is no problem atal. But if either of you have got any hang ups regarding age then its doomed to fail. After all age is only a number, being happy and enjoy the relationship far supersedes numbers.

Good luck x

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (7 July 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntAre you happy?

Is so then why would what I think matter.

The only time I think age gap is an issue is if you were 14 for example and your guy is 25 years older. :)

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