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writes:okay so, i just lost my virginity today, and, it really didnt last long because we were both scared. but it kinda hurt a lot. and, it bled. and it still is. and its been about 2-3 hours, am i okay? i cant tell my parents, or his, they'll kill me. please help, im so scared. ]:
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): I bled for quite a bit after my first time too, then the next morning i was horrifed because i'd bled absolutely loads... but then i realised it was my period.
Sex can actually bring on a period, so this may be a possibility if you are continuing to bleed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): It depends how much blood there is. It's normal when you first have sex for there to be quite a bit. But after, anything more than spotting could be a sign of a problem. I would wear a pad and wait it out. If it doesn't stop soon or you start to feel large amounts of pain, dizziness, or notice an increase in flow, get yourself to the ER. Next time, use some lube! It will really help with the pain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): Working in the ER as a registered nurse I have seen situations where ladies who first have sex can get a tear in the wall of their vagina from sex. In these situations if the bleeding or the pain doesn't go away it is necessary to see a doctor or go to the emergency department and get the tear banded ( almost like a small stitch to stop the bleeding) What you are experiencing could very well just be the normal bleeding that many experience after losing their virginity, however, if the bleeding doesn't stop, gets worse or there is significant pain it may be necessary to go to the emergency room. In the future using a lubricant made to work with condoms would help prevent future tears. Under No Circumstances should you pack anything into your vagina to try to stop the bleeding. Good luck, and if the bleeding or pain doesn't stop within a significan period make sure you see a doctor and do the right thing because a serious tear can be a dangerous thing.
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (1 July 2009):
 Yeah thats perfectly normal. I bled for a few hours after my first time and bled for three days after my second! Dont worry about it, its perfectly normal.
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