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writes:ok.. now i really love my boyfriend. like really really. and i would never consider leaving him.. but his friends hate me and my friends hate him.. if we ever see each other with our friends in public we have to act like we dont know each other.. he says its the hardest thing hes ever had to do.. but he doesnt want them to jeopardize our relationship. coz he loves me 2. he also has to work alot so i get to see him sometimes a few times a week and sometimes every two weeks (he works in a bar) and i know he works coz i hav to walk past it every day.. i just wanna know what other people think? thanx alot. greatly appreciated. mwaah! Reply to this Question
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reader, wild_cherry69 +, writes (7 March 2007):
wild_cherry69 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanx.. i dont know y his frends hate me.. but mine hate him coz he went through a really messed up and confusing part of his life and he messed me around a few times.. but hes changed so much but they dont see it
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): friends are friends forever, there always there for u when u need them or when u dont need them. but even though his friends dont like u and ur friends dont like him isnt the end of the world. as long as ur happy ur friends should support u. but remember ur friends want nothing but the best for u, and may feel that ur bf isnt it. no matter what happens they should be happy for u and ur bf
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reader, cd206  +, writes (7 March 2007):
 I guess it depends on why your respective friends hate you and him. Normally my advice would be to go with the advice of your friends because theyre outside the situation and can see things in a clearer light. HOWEVER.... sounds to me like there's an element of jealousy bubbling under the surface here. What it comes down to is how strongly you feel about each other. If it really is love like you're so sure it is then it can survive anything, even friendship battles.
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