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*rincess166
writes:Hello everyoneMy partner and i have been together for 2 years, late last year he was diagnosed with sever anxiety. It is only this month and the last it has become worse, he is easily irritated, moody, grumpy, twitching in bed etc. he says he feels sick in the head and does not want me to be around him when he is being angry and irritated. i stayed over his house last weekend, and dropped me off on a saturday afternoon (strange because i usually stay unti sunday night) and said that he wanted to be alone and hang out with his friends and drink that night. i cried the whole way home because i felt rejected and he said i was being a little silly, and that i was trying to make him feel bad for something he shouldnt have to feel bad about. and he said i was acting like it was the last time i would see him or as if i was getting dumped. he also said he would maybe rather see me once or twice a week instead of the whole weekend. he says he cant be around anyone without getting irritated and angry.i called him on a sunday night to see how he was, and did not pick up twice. so i went on chat and he said that i did nothing wrong, and that he wants to be alone for a while,, and that he doesnt feel like being around anyone. i have not spoken to him since. his birthday is also this weekend, would it be appropriate to go to his house and give him a present. what should i do with him? iam so sad and numb right now. please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, auntieloulou  +, writes (2 February 2011):
 This is a tricky situation. Initial thoughts are that this guy needs some serious work on himself and his issues, and that may mean a break from your relationship. He's not putting 100% into your relationship, but he does not mean to. I think you should give him space, let him come to you, then talk it out. leave a present at his house and thats it. i think he needs to talk to someone and work through these problems before he can fully give himself to a relationship. it sounds like your very in love with him. make sure your still there for him as a friend when he needs it. support him through the process.
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