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*eautifulxxbrunette08
writes: he is so different...he treats me different...is this a sign of him falling out of love with me? it feels like to me that i have to beg him to spend time with me...he enjoys playing football or video games much more than my company. i have tried talking to him, but it goes in one ear and right out the other. he doesn't care how i feel, in fact, when i try to explain to him how i am feeling, he blows me off and says that my feelings are whack. if it is one things my mom taught me, it is to never let anyone tell you that your feelings are wrong. she says they are not wrong nor right, they are yours! and i just feel like giving up but i am so in love with him, and we have been together almost a whole year...and it feels as if we are being ripped apart. i have been trying...getting him out of the house, keeping him busy and nothing has changed...expect he has seemed a bit happier than usual. but his attitude towards me is too much. am i doing the right thing by not caring anymore? or should i keep giving effort. the only problem is that i think i have put in so much effort and haven't been shown any by him, that i don't think i have the energy anymore.please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006): This is the problem with youth dating. They still need time to be youth and not act like adults ready for committed relationship and marriage.
This is the norm of teen dating Sweetie. Right now, seriously, his priorities should be having fun with his buds and school. So should yours.
Save the committed and long term for when you are older and know who you are and what you really want in life.
Stick to casual dating, no sexual intercourse-get to discover what traits you like in a life partner and how you are with a certain type of young man. Learn. Go slow. Keep it non serious. Enjoy your time getting to know yourself.
Best of Wishes.
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