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writes: hi wonderng if anyone will help i'm 17 gonna be 18 soon, and i like this guy i work with. i know he likes me back because his spoken to a friend that works with us. the only problem that is stopping him telling me is the fact hes 21 and is worried about the age gap?! can you help?
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Hi, why dont you approach him first and speak to him. Nowadays that is not a big age gap at all. You will find that most girls go out with blokes a few years older than themselves. I am twenty and my boyfriends twenty-six and we love eachother very much. We dont even notice that there is an age gap because we are so compatible. Age is nothing but a number hunny. Girls mature a lot faster than men so that is why we prefer to date blokes a few years older than ourselves because we are at the same mental age as them. Take him to one side and explain your feelings for him and say you know he feels the same. Reassure him that it doesnt matter what other people think and when they realise how perfect you are together they wont even think twice about it. Go on girl, go and get him. Good luck
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