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30-35,
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writes:ive been going out with this boy for 3 months and he said he got confused and didnt know if he loved me anymore. for a few days things were a bit akward and he asked me what we should do. i said we should not talk for a few weeks and then we'll miss each other and then we can be all lovey again. he said it was a ridiculous idea. so then i suggested we should arrange a time to discuss how we felt and what we could do. he said that wouldnt work either. and then he said theres no point pretending everythings gonna be alright when its not. i knew he was kind-of trying to dump me without hurting me. so i just said "ok then. have a nice life. enjoy yourself. see you around." we were fine and friendly for the rest of the night. but today he seemed moody and not speaking much. anyone know why he's being like this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (5 July 2007):
 I personally think that this boy is just so cheesed off that you actually did the dumping instead of him doing it to you.
At the end of the day you took the mature view and said OK if that's what you want then we are over.
He needs to get over himself as I think if he did say let's get back together again he would probably only do it so he could then dump you again in a few weeks.
You don't need that hassle. Move on as I am sure there are a lot of other boys just waiting for you to be single again.
He is the immature one here so now that you are not together anymore let him go into his sulks, you don't have to put up with them so just think how much more fun you can now have and not have to feel guilty about it.
Good for you girl.
Take care.
Country Woman
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): Maybe he's not happy about the fact that you broke up with him so easily; I know you were hurting about it but you saying so simply, Ok, we're over, see you around, might have made him think you didn't care at all. He was Ok at the time but having thought about it overnight, maybe he isn't happy with the break up; or he may just not like the fact that you did it while seemingly not really minding. Ask him outright what his problem is; tell him he wanted it to be over and now it is, so what's he go to be moody about? Good luck.
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